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Topic: Mustang??
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Rainmaker Member
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posted 03-06-2002 11:12 AM
Who is/was this girl ( I presume) mustang? I've read a few old messages and he/she seems like a very hotheaded person. DOes anyone know who they are and why they are no longer here? I'm just very curious.Thank you, Rainmaker |
AJR Senior Member
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posted 03-06-2002 11:44 AM
I don't think that it serves any purpose to discuss the personal details of any member in an open forum. It is always disappointing when one member is upset by the words of another, whether intended or otherwise, and we would try to encourage each member to work through the difficulties and provide a positive ending. However, not everyone can be placated, and inevitably some will feel unable to continue visiting this site, which is sad, as most repeat visitors, whatever their age, show at least some potential. I hope you understand. Andrew |
castleuk unregistered
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posted 03-06-2002 02:12 PM
Hi Rainmaker Has you know mustang and myself had words and i said one or two things i'm sorry about. We carried it on in emails but have now kissed and made up, mustangs is just a bit hot headed and i think will come back. Yours Chris------------------ The castle location website www.castleuk.net
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Rainmaker Member
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posted 03-07-2002 10:49 AM
Andrew, I am sorry if I've brought up a sore subject or in anyway violated the "confidentiality" of anyone. I am only curious about this person and a few others as well. I imagine that it is somewhat important to know a little bit about people regardless of whether they're still on this site or not. I think mustang would make quite an interesting conversation, don't you think?I do understand, Rainmaker |
Rainmaker Member
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posted 03-07-2002 10:53 AM
Chris, I'm sure that everyone has said a couple things that they regret and I'm sure that mustang would understand. Just a little bit of advice, If I may, Try to explain yourself a little bit. From personal experience I have noticed that if you explain your side a little, you get more of a positive response. I'm sorry, who am I to give advice? Just a thought.Yours, Rainmaker |
AJR Senior Member
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posted 03-07-2002 11:59 AM
It's not a sore subject, Rainmaker, and I understand your curiousity regarding some of the people who visit this site. It is my opinion (and I do not expect all to agree with me) that if someone wants to know about the personality of another member, then it would be best to have the information "straight from the horse's mouth", as it were.I suspect many of us would make interesting topics, based on what others may think of us. The truth may be somewhat different. No offence is taken. Andrew |
Rainmaker Member
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posted 03-11-2002 10:44 AM
My apologies. As I stated in my first reply, I, in no way,tried to offend anyone. Including the mysterious mustang his/herself. However, hearing it straight from the "horse's mouth" can be a completely different story than the one that others tell. Indeed I do hope to get to speak to the Mustang but it is a little bit smarter to talk to someone if you know a little bit about them, hence why I ask here. I just wish I knew of someway to get them to come back to discuss issues of this website. I find that if you know two sides to one story it can be easier to talk to the person/people involved. Always remember,Andrew, that there are two sides to every story and how you look upon things might be a whole other world than the way that someone else does. Meaning, that you might look at Mustang very differently than he/she looks at themself. It's very easy to tell someone to ask the person themself but, for a small amount of difficulty, you could provide the "missing piece of the puzzle" at little or no cost or stress to yourself. The easy way out doesn't always work in cases like this. I hope you understand, Rainmaker |
duncan Senior Member
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posted 03-11-2002 11:59 AM
FYI Rain maker, Your in the wrong site for matching puzzle pieces pertaining to human behavior. Although we here at Castle Quest have been called a little of every thing because of our love of castles, that is, as you know, what this site is all about. This line of questioning should be continued in email or some other form of communications between you and the respondie as it does not have a legitimate purpose except for psychological profiling of some one you wish to get to know better. Why don't you try her email address or her icq number if she has one from the other site which you can find the address for in her back posts.Duncan
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